So here I go again with my TV shows- I was watching the Valentine’s
Day episode of the Real. One of our
favorite reality couples was on the show- Cynthia and Peter for RHWOA. Cynthia revealed that she and Peter had sex
on the first date. Since their first
encounter, they’ve been married for 5 years.
We all have our opinion about having sex on the first
date. You’ve probably had sex on a
first date yourself, so is it OK and do you consider this:
A. Love at first sight OR…
B. Lust at first sight.
My sisters love to call me a little old lady and I
have to agree at times- that’s why I say wait and allow your first date to be
sacred J. I personally believe its B. Lust at first sight. It’s only human nature that the first
thing we are physically attracted to is someone’s looks, which alone can be a
lustful act.
For some women, when you reach a certain age in life, the
rules for the dating scene change. They
often get twisted and bent because we become so impatient at waiting that we
say “Why
wait, I’m not getting any younger?”
Yes, it's like winning the lottery...I’ve heard of relationships like Cynthia’s that have
stood the test of time where sex was given up on the first date. Relationship connections work in mysterious
ways.
The main reason I say skip the back seat of the car on the
first date is because not all women are emotionally built to deal with her
reality of a man potentially hitting it and quitting it. 
Sex is really a spiritual connection where if the dating
doesn’t even last a month, you’ll find yourself emotionally yearning for this
person, making it harder for you to move on and find Mr. Right.
So don't put your heart at a disadvantage. It's better to wake up the next day knowing that your decision to pursue this guy wasn't clouded by the sex from the night before BUT real emotions telling you he’s worth
your time. With Love,
Adonus
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