Why Do Fools Fall in Love?



Ladies, stop giving up your independence.  No matter how successful or powerful a woman seems to be, when she’s in love, she’ll start willing giving up parts of herself. 

Whether it’s your me time, social life or moral beliefs, you must create limits in your relationship.  If not, you’ll soon realize that you gave so much of yourself that if the relationship happened to end today, you’ll have no life to go back to.

The truth is that women tend to focus their time and energy solely on over excelling at being submissive in an attempt to keep their spouse happy.  But what happens is that you fall victim to being a fool in love. 

For one, being submissive should not require you to give up your me time, social life or moral beliefs that once bought a sense of balance to your life.

And two, stop pretending that you agree with your spouse in an attempt to avoid an argument and to keep them satisfied. After being married over 5 years, I truly understand the importance of having a disagreement- seriously.

It’s not a bad thing… it can actually be healthy for your relationship because it can potentially open up the lines of communication, which a lot of relationships suffer from.


So, now is the time to get back your voice and sense of self.  Don’t fall victim to losing yourself in your relationship that you abandon friendships and lose sight of your dreams and interests.  You’ll be a fool in love if you thought your happiness was only tied to the relationship you created with your spouse. 

So ask yourself, Why Do Fools Fall in Love?
 


With Love,
Adonus