The Best Relationship Tips From Love & Hip Hop

Of course I watched the season finale of Love and Hip Hop New York last night!  There were so many relationship tips that I knew my BLUSH Beauties could benefit from some relationship lessons learned.  So here’s BS advice for the top 3 relationships that struck a nerve.

1. Chink & Chrissy
Why, If I Can Have My Cake And Eat It Too!

If a man sees you as a side chick or mistress, he’ll have no benefit to wife you.  If he already has a wife and is getting away with murder by messing around with you, there’s no logical reason for him to prefer to leave his wife and be with only you.

Celebrating 1 Year of BS!

This week is completely dedicated to celebrating BLUSH Society’s Blog turning 1!  Tomorrow, March 25^th will mark exactly 1 year from the day I started this little blog. And during the course of 1 year, a lot has changed. 

When I first started blogging, I had no specific topic I wanted to focus on, so I tried tackling everything...not a good thing to do.  Eventually, between my love for sharing relationship tips coupled with the positive feedback I received on relationship topics, it was a no brainer for me.

Check Out The Top 6 Posts by BS!

 

I'm so excited because BS will be turning 1 on next week! Plus today is my hubby’s birthday so I've been celebrating but could not skip my blog.  So with all these amazing events going on, what better time to catch up on some of our most popular posts that our BLUSH Beauties have enjoyed reading and sharing their personal comments on.  Here are our top 6 posts since hitting the web that you should truly read. 

Are Couples With No Kids Selfish?

Hi BLUSH Beauties,

By now it’s obvious that I love giving relationship advice. On the flip side, I enjoy receiving feedback from my BLUSH Beauties on relationship topics as well.  This is going to be a short and sweet post because I have one simple question to ask.    

"AreCouples With No Kids Selfish?”

So, I would love to get your honest opinion about this question. You may have heard this comment from time to time or the question, “What are you waiting for?” Although people don’t know your story or your plans about having kids, they automatically assume couples with no kids are selfish.

I want you to help me understand if It's being selfish.  I know I’m not the only woman whose been told this. So not only will you shed light on this topic for me but your comments will help other BLUSH Beauties in the same boat.

 

Trust me, you should not lose much sleep on this because people who make these kinds of comments clearly should be a non-factor in your plans.

I know people don’t mean any harm and not everyone knows how to ask a question without being offensive... I get that. So share your thoughts on “Are Couples With No Kids Selfish?”

 

Love,

Adonus

3 Foolish Mistakes We Make When in Love

It’s a beautiful thing when you’re happy in love.  But find out how to avoid making 3 foolish mistakes in your relationship.  It’s common that ladies are so happy in love that we get lost in the relationship sauce.  Corny right?  The point is that you don’t want to get too happy or comfortable in your relationship that you start losing your self-identity.

Ironically, the 3 Foolish Mistakes We Make When in Love represents common reasons why relationships tend to fall apart.  Ladies, in the midst of all the relationship bliss, you must learn how to bring a balance and start putting yourself first.